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Alright, we've discussed why women with hold in the past and I guess got as good an answer as we'll ever get. Perhaps my question in light of that will seem a bit redundant but I have to ask anyway. I've heard yet another story of a woman who is deprived of intimacy in her marriage. Thus my question; so, why do men with-hold sex? Is it for the same reason . . . a method of control? Holla!

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Permalink Reply by Christopher Bynum on January 5, 2009 at 8:30am: If he's withholding, yes, it's about control, and also possibly intended as emotional cruelty.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Savannah J. on January 5, 2009 at 4:32pm: Thanks Chris, I totally agree. This type of behavior in a relationship is never a good sign.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by DOUGLAS CURRY on January 20, 2009 at 5:37pm: It could be boredom. For some men who have played hard, by the time they get married, they are just plain bored with any sex, and especially if they've been manipulating and controlling it. It may become easy to say and pretend that they are withholding, when in reality they are just too bored to even get up for it.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Savannah J. on January 20, 2009 at 6:58pm: DOUGLAS CURRY said:
It could be boredom. For some men who have played hard, by the time they get married, they are just plain bored with any sex, and especially if they've been manipulating and controlling it. It may become easy to say and pretend that they are withholding, when in reality they are just too bored to even get up for it.

Wow, I never thought of that. Great point!; ▶ Reply to This