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March 21, 2009

YOU’RE MORE ALIVE WHEN YOU’RE DEAD by Alberta Parish

Why do I feel like some days I’m waiting to die that I might live? I mean, truly live. In fact, you’re more alive when you’re dead. Many people don’t believe that there’s life after death. Many people think that there’s no Heaven. Others think there’s no Hell either. If there is no life after death, then how do you explain those who have actually died and claimed to have looked upon their physical bodies before going back into… Continue

March 15, 2009

The Ten Commandments On Avoiding Triflingness by Alberta Parish

1. Thou shalt get an education beyond high school so you can take care of yourself as an adult and not have to depend on someone to give you money in exchange for sex.
2. Thou shalt not shack up before marriage.
3. Thou shalt not sell your body for sex.
4. Thou shalt use protection when having sex; protection against unplanned or unwanted pregnancies and against diseases.
5. Thou shalt bear children with only your h… Continue

March 12, 2009

There’s A Difference Between Wanting A Man To Provide For You And Wanting A Man Strictly For His Money In Exchange For Sex

By Alberta Parish

You will never believe how many negative responses I've gotten from black women since the same day I posted my blog on trifling black women at my various Ning profile sites. I've been talked about badly, but my opinions still remain the same. They're not getting the real point of my blog. Or maybe they get the point, but don't care about t… Continue

Here are a few things I'd like to share with the sistas who are knowingly trifling and don't care about their triflingness. Oh, I'm speaking from a single and straight woman's perspective. I've already been accused of being a lesbian here. I can't allow that to continue.

1. DO NOT HAVE ANY CHILDREN WHILE YOU'RE STILL IN HIGH SCHOOL. You're only making your life harder than what it has to be. Most women (particularly black women) that have children while in high school don't go to college. And i… Continue

March 8, 2009

Too Many Trifling Black Women In The Southeast Region!
By Alberta Parish

I’ve never seen so many trifling black women in one region in my life until now. I mean, trifling to the point of no return. Being someone who is direct and real, it irritates me when I’m dealing with a fake and trifling b#!&ch. Of course, these are the type of b#!&ches who like to use people too, especially men. As a black woman, I not only have to fight certain misconceptions that many black men ha… Continue